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Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life!!!
When you’ve made the decision to quit dipping you need support. You’ll get it right here at KillTheCan! This site is dedicated to helping people QUIT dip, smokeless & chewing tobacco! It will be a long & difficult road, but we are confident that you too can be successful and quit dip!
All articles on KillTheCan.org are written by members of our forums. These are people who understand what it means to quit. They write these articles from the perspective of a quitter. Don’t believe the “experts” that you find out there on the web – believe someone that has successfully QUIT DIP.
Day 321 for me – while it wasn’t easy the first few weeks, I will tell all of you that it gets better. Much better. There is hope – through the support of friends and family, and steeling yourself to not give in – you will come out the other side, free of this ungodly nicotine beast. I dipped for 30 years (Cope) and finally had had enough. I set a date, and stuck to my plan, and then executed with resolve, to be free of this habit. For those of you that in the early stages of quitting – hang in there, and DON’T give in. Scream, yell, hit the gym, break something….anything, just don’t give in. You’ll get through it…and with each passing day, it gets better. Do it for your family. Do it for yourself.
To those of you who are having a hard time. My friends thought I would never quit, 14 year dipper, two cans a day. I’m on day 356. It gets easier. And try the Smokey mountain, it’s not the real thing but it can get u through the cravings. I needed it for about 50 days and then I was done. U can do it. This site made me accountable also try my quit tracket app. It counts the days and helps u not want to go back to day 1. Thanks for creating this site. It saved my life and health.
-jd42
Am 25 have been chewing since 17 and been trying to quit for 5 years. Had a scare this summer my throat swelled completely shut and have to go to the hospital for shots and an operation but ultimately the shots made the swelling and infection to away.. They didn’t say anything about it being from chew just smoke and or bacteria(my girlfriend was a smoker) so after that it was a sign to quit that I didn’t take and 3 weeks after I was chewing again and 5 months later I’m seeing the same spots on my mouth that I saw when I got the infection initially over the summer without any pain though and very small but still terrified right now that I screwed up a perfect opportunity and am paying for it.. Wish I never touched this stuff and I’m 7 days off chew
Day 88. The ‘last’ wave of crazy cravings is happening. It happens when you start thinking ‘I proved i can beat it’ so it won’t hurt to take a pinch. Not caving this time. Anyone past this that can tell me when you stop having cravings? All you new quitters- keep it up. It’s going to be hell- won’t last forever.
My quit day was yesterday. I have dipped original skoal for 20 years. I have two young kids that ask me why I put that stuff in my mouth and I dont’ have a good answer. My biggest fear is the triggers and how to deal with them….drinking a beer, watching sports, being outside, hunting, fishing….dear Lord give me the stregnth to get through this.
Congrats on a great decision Tony! Triggers will be tough, but you can get through them.
Check out What To Expect for a good timeline: https://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/what-to-expect-when-you-quit-dipping/
Also, if you haven’t yet, I’d suggest you join our forum where we’ve got over 22,000 members who “get it”. It’s the best place on the web to get questions answered from folks who “get it”. http://forum.killthecan.org
He will! He gave me strength, which I needed, and you will, too. It’s tough, but anything worth doing is. You’ll start to doubt yourself, want to get a can to wean off it, forget why or minimize why you wanted to give it up in the first place… don’t give in to it. Work to remember why you wanted to quit in the first place. Mostly, those two young ones that look to you, and need you around for quite some time for guidance.
Most severe cravings last no more than 10 minutes and then start to fade. I chewed on toothpicks. Thousands of them. You can do this. You are tougher than that toxic weed that wants you to jam it in your mouth.
My quit day day was yesterday. I’ve dipped for 20 years, original skoal. I have two kids that are young and always ask me why I put that stuff in my mouth……i don’t have a good answer. I don’t chew as much as I used to, I’m down to basically one a day. I go all day at work without and then get home and have one at night. My fear is the things that trigger the urge….drinking a beer, watching sports, being outside, fishing…..i want to do this for my kids. I have tears in my eyes explaining this because i finally realize how stupid this habit is. Dear Lord give me the strength to get through this.
I’ve only been dipping for about 13 months but I’m still scared about getting mouth cancer. I see my dentist and my doctor regularly so I assume if they saw something alarming they would have told me.
Is there anything out there like Chantix for smokeless tobacco?
I know smokers are getting great results from it !
Hey everyone!
I’d like to start out by saying that I envy everyone that is trying to, or has, quit.
I’ve been dipping for close to 10 years. Not as long as what some of you dipped for, but for the past week I have been having digestive issues. Not sure if it’s dip related but it’s enough to declare this as my quitting day! I have tried quitting numerous times in the past but I’ve always found myself going back. Hopefully I won’t lie to myself again and can kick this s**t for good! And I pray to God that my digestive issues turn out okay.
To anyone wondering if you should quit: DO IT! It’s not going to get any easier the longer you put it off and it’s not worth your life!
To everyone that is struggling: Hang in there and think of every day without a dip as an accomplishment!
Wish me luck!
i have cut back for two weeks and tomorrow i am going to go cold turkey.i’ve only been using 2 to 3 dips a day and im ready to give it up.i have been chewing for 5 years and wish i had not started it.ready to be nicotine free
IF YOU THINK SMOKEY MOUNTAIN DOESNT TASTE GOOD
AND ONLY MAKES YOU WANT THE REAL THING
AND YOU LIKE COFFEE (but know coffee grind pouches are too expensive and cans don;t even come full)
READ BELOW FOR BETTER ALTERNATIVE! skip to —————— if u dont wanna hear my story. Mad love for the baseball players out there tryna quit!!
started when I was 14, I’m 23 now, and as a baseball player ya’ll know how it is. Well for all of us its bad but something about the game perpetuates it.
If you like coffee and you like dip and dont wanna buy those expensive cans of coffee grind pouches that dont even come full read below (not easy to do, but once you get it itll be easy). Forgive the length–it’s been a long road (I know some of ya’ll been dippin longer though–I hope ya’ll fight your way through).
So I started at age 14, in Tampa, Florida–peer pressure, only freshmen on varsity baseball they made me do it-skoal cherry–i puked it was 96 degrees and coach said on the line for sprints as soon as I put it in. to this day the smell of cherry makes me sick *although I can dip it).Young kid tryna fit in, you know the story (sad thing is I was a starter so I didn;t need the shit to be cool or fit in. I’m still playing ball (college) and am honestly not addicted thank God–but part of that has come from taking long breaks (as I moved up north and the cold weather makes me not wanna dip as much). Don’t get me wrong, in Florida for my junior year of college and sophomore year at junior college I’d kill a can a day. Everyone did it Freshmen year in Florida (college now, age 19-not 14) sophomore year in Missouri and Junior year in Florida less of my teammates did it but being in Florida, playing college ball, the warm weather–I couldnt not dip–I told my team they were un American, not real baseball players because they didnt dip–haha–the shit we tell ourselves to justify the habit! The toughest was in junior college. Middle of missouri with nothin to do but baseball, dip, or drink and I don’t like the bottle. Long bus rides, I mean 8, 12 hour rides to texas, everywhere–you condition your mind. We have to remember the addiction is simply the mind being trained, conditioned-my teammates n I dip during video games, watchin sports, fishin, bus trips, while we take shits, you name it–everything becomes a “trigger” by association. How’d we form the habit-repetition, break it the same way. Don’t get me wrong, when I’m doing something monotonous–sitting in class in a lecture, or reading long amounts, GOD do I wanna dip. I needed something in my mouth, and I’m sorry Smokey Mountain sucks. My mother bought me a can I promised I’d try it, and felt so bad because I put in a lip, had it in for literally two, three minutes, and threw the shit out and said I’m sorry mom its terrible, I can tell its just corn silk molasses and other disgusting flavors and only made me want dip MORE//tasted NOTHING LIKE DIP (smokey mountain straight–i only chew Copenhagen straight long cut). What I thought of was this; my friend had coffee grind pouches–but they’re expensive. So, we had coffee grinds at the house already, and filters ( a pound of coffee will literally make you like a months worth of dip–I just fill an old copenhagen straight longcut can up because that was my baby when I dipped and I love it–it doesnt even make me want the real thing, and it smells amazing–you can even start by mixing coffee grinds n dip, and weakening the ratio as you ween yourself off if youre a decade plus veteran dipper or whatever but I never tried mixing).
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–>I cut rectangles out of the paper filters, about 1.5″ by 2″, you can make the square as big as you want (start bigger as its easier, as you get bigger u need less excess paper to make it),
–>take a pinch of coffee just like you would do a dip except bigger than your dip size because it packs down a lot when moisturized, but will appear big in the filter paper so start with a piece of filter paper about the size of your palm if u have to,
–>except the stuffs like sawdust ya know, its not going to stay together. It takes some finesse, but; –>You start it like a hand rolled cigarette to pack it down work it back and forth like a taco with the thumbs and index,
–>tuck both ends in with the index fingers while your thumbs and middle fingers pinch the pouch (after you feel the grinds compacted a little after a few back and forth taco rolls with the index and thumb),
–>put both ends (of the coffee taco pouch) in and hold them there,
–>tuck the thumbs just like a rolling paper, and roll it up.
–>What I do is I literally just dip that bad boy in water real quick, or throw it in my mouth.********* Heres the tricky part–its dry, its not a pouch thats sealed, you have to tuck it into the pocket in your cheek or wherever you put it and leave it in that spot for a few minutes, your mouth should salivate, and if it doesnt take a sip of water n let some get on the pouch, once the pouch is wet and sits in the cheek for a moment, you can literally move it around, take it out, just like a regular pouch. So long as u got it wet and sitting still for at least three to five minutes to get packed n solid– youll have a pouch.
*****The reason I suggest this is because
one; division one baseball they throw you and your head coach out if they catch you with dip.
Two, smokey mountain fake dip, its so disgusting.
Three; Who doesnt like coffee? Tastes great, its kinda strong too thats what I love–i used espresso beans–as for the buzz, I dont know but i guess you could im not sure.
Finally, you swallow the juices they taste great, and you spit when you miss spitting. (and I could never drink with a dip in–just have water handy because you’ll be thirstier than you ever were with a dip in). sorry for the long post but I know fake dip just makes me wanna dip more and something about a coffee taste at least having a more bold taste worked for me.
My name is Josh. I have chewed for about 6 to 7 years and was also a smoker. I know now its time for a change. The only thing that’s ever worked for me is cold turkey. I’m in need of support. Its hard for me to get past the anger and withdrawal effects. Also its tough when you have so much down time or things that you always associated it with. After meals, while you drive, and ext. My quit date is tomorrow and accountability is the biggest thing I need right now.
112 Days Hang in there guys it gets eaiser
Today is my official quit date. I said last Friday I was going to make this my quit date. I was more determined this time due to I said I needed to quit on my own. Im doing this more me and my family. I was dipping 2 whole cans a day @ 2.39 a can. As today goes on its getting harder it seems to stay focused and i can feel my temper is on the verge of pushing me to get angry. I have tried Golden Eagle but it is way to dry, grainy and too sweet. Does anyone know of a replacment thats moist and kinda like long cut and not sweet? Thanks
Congrats on a great decision to quit Kenneth! Our smokeless alternatives page has reviews, coupons, etc. https://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/smokeless-alternatives/ I’d point you to Hooch or Smokey Mountain as a starting point.
i just bought some smokey mountain at wal-mart- it seems to do the trick as i am already out of the nicotine withdrawal phase
im on day five and it seems to be getting more difficult to resist. at first the withdrawal aspect was intense, but i think that part of it is over. how long do these ridiculous cravings last?
They have to slowly fade away. It took you some time to get addicted, it will take a bit of time to undo that. I noticed some days were awful, and I had a hard time coming up with a reason not to go buy a can… that would finally put me out of my misery. For everyone it’s different, but I would like to say around the two week mark was the point I could finally stop obsessing about needing a dip. Your mind is playing tricks on you. It gets a lot easier. Hang in there. You can do this.
thank you chuck, what day are you on?
According to Google, 697. It’s hard to believe.
I still want one from time to time, but nothing worse than wanting a slice of pizza. It sounds good, but would take too much effort to drive to the store. Within a minute I have forgotten about it. Most days, I think back and can’t recall having a single craving.
It’s the crappy thing about the stuff. It IS fun. I couldn’t tell you why. Maybe it was because I was usually doing something I enjoyed when I had a dip in. After a while, I had one in all day. The inside of my lip felt like a scrotum (yeah, I just said that) and I would obsess over every bump and sore spot.
The first week or two- I wanted to kill someone. Then, the feeling started to morph into a feeling of pride that I was winning a battle. The mind tricks subside and you can start to recognize the urge for what it is, and you can put it in it’s own box in your head. I found myself driving when the urge would hit most often, and would catch myself mumbling, “Go f**k yourself” to the urge.
Now it’s a mental game. It knows it’s fallen too far behind to keep up. You’ve taken control. Don’t let go of it.
Does anyone know where you can find the mint leaf snuff pouches around arlington tx? I want a store I can just pick it up at!
Seth – we’ve got a Where To Buy page here but it’s in its infancy and there’s no Arlington locations listed. https://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/smokeless-alternatives/where-to-buy/
That said, most WalMarts nationwide carry Smokey Mountain – may want to check there! When / if you find something plese let me know so I can update the list!
day 8 for me. today was the first day, driving into work that I didnt want to throw a plug in. Still miss it like crazy- but… atleast the urge is getting better. still a little foggy and head fuzzy at work tho.
Im 22 and Ive been dipping for 10 years. within the last year ive noticed an significant increase in blood pressure and trouble breathing for no apparent reason. my biggest problem im facing as far as quitting goes? I like to dip. I dont wanna quit,. but i start the Academy for the sheriffs dept. in march and im so short of breath all the time that i dont feel confident that i can finish the physical part of the Academy with high enough scores to pass. i have no idea where to start. I have gotten so used to having a dip in that i literally have one in from the time i wake up until i go to bed. I have gotten so used to having a can in my pocket that i flip out if my can isnt there. I timed myself last night and i literally could only go 22 minutes without a dip before my temper started getting shitty. Im open to suggestions guys. Thanks for your time.
High blood pressure is very typical with nicotine usage. Cutting out the nic will help.
If it’s the “act” of dipping you’re missing, there are a ton of alternatives out there that contain no tobacco & no nicotine: https://www.killthecan.org/your-quit/smokeless-alternatives/
I’ve only been dipping for about 13 months but I’m still worried about getting cancer. Hell, If I wasn’t on the rugby team I probably never would have started. I dont do it everyday but the days i do chew, I chew about 2 cans in less than a day. I actually haven’t had a lip in about two days. I hope that can last.
Day 70. I’ve been heavy on the sweets and using the fake stuff. I just don’t miss the way I used to feel when I was on that stuff for 30 years.
Day One For Me! I love it terribly but tired of hiding it from kids, trying to find store close by, hiding it from co-workers and most of all – it’s a bad f’n habit that could kill me. Just stumbled on the site and am excited to make it to 100 days – may try the the HoochSnuff but hope it doesn’t come to that! HERE WE GO !
I haven’t had tobacco in 18 days now. I see alot of people asking of how to come up with a start date. I gave myself a couple of weeks and planned to quit around a lower stress period. In my case, it was during Christmas vacation. When the cravings get bad, I have been dipping Smokey Mountain Wintergreen which is mostly Corn Silk and Molasses. It is not quite like Tobacco, but feels pretty close and tastes pretty good. I only try to dip it when I feel like I am about to break though… trying to wean myself off the habit. I felt great for the most of the first week, but started having headaches the second week. In that case, I would take some headache medicine and try to forget about it. Going on week 3, I’m back to feeling pretty good with the occasional headaches, but I don’t feel like I need a dip never as often. One can of Smokey Mountain is lasting me about 3 days or so. I started at 1 can per day.
I like seeing what you all are doing to quit and that people are going through the same things I am. What is working for me is that I keep praying, planning, and trying not to run out of things that I know will help such as fake dip and headache medicine (Excedrin Migraine works great). I feel like the more I plan and try to stay ahead of the headaches/cravings, the better I feel.
I put in my last dip a few hours ago I gave only been dipping for a few years but realized recently that I’m booked bad. I know I can not do it cold turkey but I am gonna quit one way or another. The posts herehere are so motivating and I’m scared for this journey but excited to put this behind me
24 hrs ago I spit out what I hope was my last chew of Copenhagen. Been dipping that nasty shit for 30 years. It’s been a bitch these first 24 hrs but its time.
I actually quit 4 days before the New Years slipped up on New Years and haven’t done it since the New Years.. But now My brain it telling me to get some skoal but u don’t want to get throat cancer like my dad got… But he was a smoker but didn’t go to the doctor and by the time he did he had to go through chemo and radiation for a few months.. After that he felt better for a couple weeks then the doctor told him he has more cancer behind his vocal chords. Then they removed his voice box. And that’s were we are at right now.. And I don’t want that happening to me…
Trying to get to April roll call, though need help. Any other way to get to live chat. My computer is slow.
Michael – are you getting an error? Live chat can be found here: http://chat.killthecan.org/
Day 3. 3 LOOOOONNNGGGGG Days. I know it will get better. I have chewed 20 yrs, , my whole teenage age/adult life. Need to rewire everything I do to do it with out dip. I want it this time. I want it, my family needs it.
I say cold turkey is the best. I use seeds for the physical.
Day 9… I’m tired and irritable but I know it will pass because of reading all the success stories on this site. I struggled last night big time… but I didn’t cave because I refuse after 30+ years to be owned by worm dirt any longer!
I wanted to chime in here and say…….First day here! Chewed 27 years. Using the patch and looking forward to not reaching for a can ever again.
I can’t remember my log in pass word to save my life. Tried the forgot password deal. It says sent email but I never get an enail. Any ideas? If so reply to comment or email me chevy727c@gmail.com
Just sent you an email with your updated password.
Yes many of us have. I naturally backed off on drinking when i quit dipping. I’m a beer drinker. You must seperate the two. Seeds is a big help with the oral fix. You’ve quit do not go back. If you feel the need to chew get in here and tell one of us before you do. We will defiantly talk you out of it. Stay strong.
I’ve been chewing at least a can of Kodiak per day for 24 years. I’m 42 now, been telling myself “I’m gonna quit soon” now for years. I decided no more excuses anymore and made today “Day 1”. It’s almost bed time now and this will be the first day in forever that I haven’t used that crap. I actually feel better than I thought I would and haven’t had a real craving for a dip until now. I won’t though.
My biggest concern, however, is what will happen next time I drink alcohol… Chewing after drinking is a real crutch for me. I suppose I could avoid drinking, but would strongly prefer not to. How have others dealt with this?
Thanks Everyone!
I am 47 and dipped since I was 15. I smoked between 18 and 40 and dipped less. Between 40 and December 24th, 2014 (7.5 years) I lived with a chew in my mouth outside of eating. I am not a real alcohol drinker but am addicted to coffee. I really enjoyed my dip after I pour a coffee. So I am at day 14. I am so excited because I have tried so many times and this is the furthest I have gone. Now its more of a game for me trying to get to that next level. Day 1 I had 2 chews, day 2 I had 1 chew, and none since. Day 1 through 3 was intense and I paced a lot (a lot). I tried my very best not to be agitated with anyone. I took it upon myself as a challenge to not only quit, but to remain very calm and symptom free. So far its been working OK for me. I did buy Smokey Mountain and it does help with the mental side effect of having a chew in. But I only use it on occasion.
I sit at a desk almost 10 hours a day. So I really want a chew. I have sugar free suckers and hard candy. Lemon and spicy seems to work best for me. But I mentally focus on how awesome it is to quit than focus on how miserable I could be. Surprisingly it helps. Its mental after the first few days so set yourself up how you will deal with it mentally.
This site is has been great for me and I hope this helps as other posts helped me.
Kudos, David. The best move you’ll ever make. Your story mirrors mine. 10-ish hours, on my duff every day, sucking on a poison weed. In reality, I might as well have installed an I.V. above my desk with a Grizzly logo on it. (Maybe another I.V. for Seattle’s Best Coffee in the other arm.)
You’ve made it passed the most grueling part of it. In my case, I found myself in a fog, unable to concentrate and obsessing over every little pimple and bump in my mouth, and wondering if I would ever be as productive as I was with a chew in my lip. Stick with it, man. The fog will lift, the anxiety fades and your reliance on the dip will go away.
I went to a cabin by myself, overlooking a glacier in order to get away from stores where I might buy any tobacco during first 72 hours. I didn’t want to quit; but I knew I had to quit because the tobacco is killing me and taking away my sex drive. I went hiking and let myself make weird noises like an autistic person and this helped with the depression attacks. When I closed my eyes, I had visions, an interesting side-effect of withdrawal. I read a bunch of Aristotle at the cabin. I discovered that happiness is an activity, not an emotion. Perhaps, happiness manufactures pleasure. I relied on tobacco to manufacture pleasure, because I was unhappy. I couldn’t manufacture my own pleasurable states. I didn’t know how to be happy because I didn’t know happiness was an activity. I thought happiness was an emotion because I confused happiness with its side-effect: pleasure. I can become happy, if I engage in “activities that are in accordance with virtue.” Plus, tobacco stopped being effective in producing pleasure. Tobacco just made me feel dizzy, tired, and ill. I’m sick of it. Happiness, not tobacco, will get pleasure back into my life. I just hope I can stick with it! Happiness is hard work; but tobacco is easy. I think that happiness produces a higher quality pleasure, though…
I’m commenting on my own post because the etymology of ‘ idiot’ is “private person “, which is what I was when I was chewing. This is day 26. Unfuckingbelievable.
This is day 28 of my quit, and I remember why I started chewing. Chew made me feel good about living when I felt bad about living. I felt hopeless about getting a new girlfriend. Chew took away that desire to have a girlfriend, and thus, the need for hope. Now I’m back to desire & I want a chew to take it away. But if I go back, I’ll be chewing all the time in no time. I think suicidal ideation and depression is the mind’s way of tricking me back into nicotine, anyway. If I’m quit, it’s a decision to face the pain/anxiety/angst that got me to rely on chewing in the first place… And WHAT exactly is lurking here, anyway? Only one way to find out: Stay quit, in spite of it all.
Mr idiot
Keep the fight! Don’t give into the nic bitch , you are close to a month of kicking ass, don’t let anything distract you, this quit is for your life, like it was for all of us.
Once you get near day 30-40. ( for me). The fog lifted, things become more clear, hang in there
Jeff
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Hey someone read my post! Thanks Jeff. Ok, I’m encouraged. Awesome!
This is day 30 of my quit. The only reason I want to chew now is because I wish I had more fun in my life. It would be so easy to go back to chewing, because chewing is fun; but, I need my pain (of realizing my life isn’t fun) to make the changes to make my life fun (working less, getting a girlfriend, etc.) Nicotine took away that pain and replaced it with pleasure… such a simple “solution”; and THAT was the problem. If my quit is going to stick, I have to make some more life changes. I guess quitting dip was just the start. 30 days, hmmm…. Now I will try one more improvement. I will run on the treadmill for half hour each day. I know that doesn’t sound like adding fun; but, I’m so confused about what to do, that maybe a healthier body will give me more clarity. Let’s see if that takes me anywhere new. I’ll check back in @ day 60 to keep you all posted (if anyone is actually reading this). I may check back in sooner if I get tempted to go back to the comfort of Citrus Skoal Long Cut or General Snus Mint. I certainly wasn’t running every day on the treadmill when I had that bullshit to makes me feel comfortable in my workaholic lifestyle, here in zero below, dark as fuck Alaska working 65 hours a week.
I’m reading this 🙂
Whew, Threw out last can of Copenhagen on Christmas eve. Pretty gnarly cravings all though the long weekend. Feeling pretty good this morning though… 25+ years of that stuff! Anyhow, like other posters stated – my kids did me in, gotta have something to hold onto, but you still have to want to do it (for) yourself. Goodluck everyone. I will return, I m sure, as instead of reaching for a dip I am posting on here. Work is always my hardest place to put it down.
Howdy yal. My name is Josh but you can call me Rocket. Family nickname.. Anyways, I had my last of the worst addiction I never wanted. It’s so bad I wish I never met one of my best friends cuz than I never would’ve done it. I need help so please everyone help me out with your words. Little about me, just turned 21 on the 23rd.. Only been dippin for bout 6 years.. Dipped with everything I did.. Plan and simple, I couldn’t do any activity knowing I didn’t have a can near by..
Hey guys I’m only 20 and have been dipping for around half a year. I have been trying to quit before I get too addicted but I have a roommate who got me into it and jeeps pressuring me to continue. Any suggestions on how to stop?
My name is Todd. I live around Philadelphia PA. I am 41 and have been off dip for about a year now. I started smoking cigarettes which is far worse for the past three months. I never was “OK” since I stopped. I dipped since I was 18 – about a tin every two days (Kodiak). Things were OK for awhile, but they have been horrible lately. I tried Wellbutrin when I stopped and it made me crazy. Ive been sneaking smokes here and there since 4 months ago. The nicotine doesn’t do the same thing as a big fat dip ever did. Ive been cantankerous, and sometimes suicidal. I’m at my wits end and hurting my family mentally. I’m just not happy. I promised myself I would never dip again, and I still stay true to that promise. But I just need help. I feel my brain never recovered and I have been dealing with extreme depression ever since. Nothing is working. I know typing this out wont help, but I have no other option. I’m hoping it will. I usually just chew hubba bubba bubble tape and stick it in my lip. Doesn’t work anymore. Ever try nicorette gum? Any one ever had luck with that? I never tried it. I tried the mint chew – that stuff sucked. Ive been depressed for just about a year. Ive made my wife cry on more than one occasion. I just don’t know what to do that anymore. My brain feels “broken” ever since I stopped. Haven’t had a dip in over a year… Never will again – and that’s my problem. Maybe I should just to feel normal again and act accordingly – buy a tin, otherwise, Im not easy to get along with – I used to be so fun to be around – not anymore….if any ideas, please send. I’m at the end of my rope… I have really been thinking to start again. I might not live as long, but I would rather have 20 good years dipping than 40 sh#tty years hurting people mentally because of my short fuse while Im not dipping. Thoughts? toddweber@comcast.net
Todd – if you haven’t yet, join our community at http://forum.killthecan.org – we’ve got over 22,000 members who “get it” cause we’ve been there. Get some support / questions answered from folks with similar (or more) time quit as you do.
Need help join the site tonight I have tried multiple times to quit dipping even had some pretty severe sores in mouth but Copenhagen LC always got me running back
Jw join up man. Just kinda dig around site. click on things read comments. You figure it out alittle at a time. Corey day 23
Take your can flush it and tell your self im done. And log in to ktx
Hi Everyone. On December 22nd I’ll be on day 60 of my quit. I started chewing when I was 15 years old. I used to wrestle and all the guys on the team dipped so I figured why the hell not! I’m now 33 years old and have been chewing ever since. I’ve basically hid it from almost everyone in my life, including my wife. She would get so mad at me when we first started dating, but the last few years when she’d find a can she wouldn’t even say anything; she knew I was going to keep doing it and would lie so what’s the point.
About a year ago I had my first kid, a boy named Cole. He’s been great, but still it wasn’t enough for me to quit. Truthfully, it was the Curt Schilling article I read that made me decide to quit. Scary stuff!
I used to go through about a can every 3-4 days. I would have one once I got to work, just before lunch, mid afternoon, on the drive home, and one once I got home. I also used to play video games frequently on the weekends, but I stopped doing that because I always chewed when I played.
The first 6 weeks went a lot better than I thought. It’s been tough the last 2 weeks. Every day I think to myself, “Just buy a can, you can quit again.” So far I’ve been able to say no, but it’s been tough. I’m committed to jumping back onto this site to help.
Wish me luck! Day-to-Day is my motto with this!
Day 55. For those starting out- you will go through hell. Your fault- suck it up. But one day you will wake up and feel like a new person. I’ve still got a ways to go, but there’s no looking back at this point. I’m a real competitive guy- so I made it a point to tell my family so that I was going up against my reputation. Fight until victory- same with this. You can do it!
over 1300 days! This April 1st will be 4 years! chewed a can a day of Copenhagen for 33 years. Set a date! plan for it. Cold turkey and a mindset that you will never ever take another pinch of tobacco again. Yes you can use tobacco free chew to help, but you can’t wean off the tobacco adiction because that means you don’t have the mindset to quit for good. I know that I will never go back, and when you have that mindset, it makes all the difference. I tried many times before but I really didn’t want to quit because I liked it too much! That leads to failure. You need to really want to quit. Good luck, I’m living proof it can be done, and PS I am around people that chew a lot so don’t use that excuse. I have the mindet that I could care a less. You can stick a can under my nose and I have no urge to try it again. 3yrsoff (Mark B)
I agree 100% with Mark. I did things the same way. I had a supply of Hooch snuff, but it really made me crave chew even more because it was like a cheap substitute. I gave all that away to others. I went to sugar free gum and jolly ranchers for a while but got rid of them too. I admit that I do like gummi bears though. I planned a quit date that had meaning to me and I stopped on that date, 1/26/10. I still had half a tin of Skoal left. I left it in my car and developed an antagonistic relationship with it. I would look at it and curse. I hated that tin and all it represented, but I kept it in my car to show that it did not control me. Every day I got stronger and the Skoal got weaker. When I felt it was time, I got rid of it. I did this 7 months after I quit. I am also around people who chew all the time and they don’t influence me one bit. I will share my story if they offer me a pinch. They don’t offer anymore after that. I chewed a tin a day for 32 years. I am now 53 and on 12/31, I will be tobacco free for 1800 days. If I can do it, anyone can do it.
I quit for 6 months and started back with the Camel Snus thinking it would be super easy to quit.Wrong. I’ve flirted with it back and forth and in the last month I’ve wanted to buy a can of Grizzly Wintergreen pouches everyday. And I have some days. I’m officially on day 1 of my new commitment to quit. This has been harder than the first time. I cannot concentrate at all at work. But if I don’t quit, then I’m gonna die one day and lose my future wife. Not worth it.
Not sure what the typical length is for a first-time post so excuse me if it’s lengthy, but I just had my last pinch about 30 minutes ago..
Here’s a little bit about me: I’m 19 years old and I started dipping almost a year ago, around the same time I started my enlistment process for the US Marine Corps. It was never really something that I craved doing, just a once in a blue moon thing – but I imagine that that is how most of us started.
Now, I can’t really get through a shift without dipping before, during, and after work. In hindsight, I picked up the habit from my recruiter & fellow recruits, since they dip quite often and got me curious as to what was so great about it.
I have always found that conventional methods by “experts” for quitting substance abuse (pills, marijuana, etc.) have never worked. Luckily, I found KTC this morning and feel as if this is the support group I’m looking for.
Why I’m quitting: To save $, preserve my health, and most of all – to live a long life with my family, friends, and the love of my life. By quitting this habit I’ll be able do all of the above, and avoid unnecessary problems down the road.
That pretty much sums it all up, and knowing that I just took my last pinch is a pretty big relief. I am going cold turkey so wish me luck lol..
Other than that, I look forward to chatting with you all & sharing my progress.
Feel free to ask me anything!
Chris,
Quitting cold turkey is how it’s done, and how I did it.
I am a USMC veteran, if you did sign up, no tobacco at boot camp, so I hope can get your quit in before, at least you will not have withdrawals at boot.
Your a young man, and smart to quit now, I know several of my friends here in ktc, would have quit at 19.
We are most in our 40’s or 50’s.
Good luck
Jeff
Day 128
I would like to join this group
Day 2. I absolutely love Copenhagen. I am not quitting because I want to but because I know I need too. Wish me luck. Good luck to the rest of you.
That kind of attitude makes it tougher. I used to romanticize how much I loved my Grizzly Longcut. It wasn’t until I could list off the reasons I despised it that I could commit to my quit.
We all loved it at one time or we wouldn’t keep putting a poison weed in our lip day after day, year after year. Your post reminds me of a guy that keeps a girlfriend around regardless of the fact she’s giving him a venereal disease every night. “It hurts to pee, but by golly she’s a looker!”
Hey ya”ll
I quit chewing 50 days ago today. I decided to quit when one of my buddies forwarded me the story about Curt Shilling and his bout with mouth cancer. I have always wanted to quit chewing and I have always had an excuse each time. My wife and I got into an argument about it and I basically told her that I don’t see it happening. I started chewing mostly when I was in college. I played college football and we sat in meetings and watching film for countless hours. It always helped pass the time to have a Copenhagen in, that was 14 years ago. We all know the story from there, your chewing for breakfast, lunch and dinner and in between. I came across this site and it has helped with my battle to quit. This is the first time that I have posted a comment but reading the other people that have posted and are going through the same struggles really helps!The hardest time is when I have some beers so I keep the fake stuff on hand to curb the desire. I do have to say that the desire is fading. No longer do I have a chew on the way to work, at lunch, or on the way home. But still the crave is there! Thanks to everyone on here for there encouragement! It’s nice to know that other people are going through the same struggles! I know my battle is far from over and 50 days feels like a long time. Now that I have posted I feel like I need to be accountable to all of you as well!
Thanks!
Brock
I’m 17 and dipped a can a day since I was about 15 and trying to quit because cancer seams to run in my family , what is the best way to quit?
Bob
First, congrats on your decision, and it tells us you have the balls to quit the nic bitch.
The best way to quit is to go get your can(s). Go to the toilet and flush all of it,
Cold turkey is the best way… Fight the first few days
Post. Read. Post… You will find allot of support on your quit.
The first step is a bitch, but you can do it
Jeff
Day 128.